Yes, I know that it's been absolutely ages since I've posted but hey don't worry because I have a couple of surprises for you! Firstly, sit back and relax because if you do tune in for my 'surprises' then it shall be quite time consuming.
Now first, these 'surprises'. Well if you scroll down just a tad bit, you can then see that I have uploaded two new fun videos for your entertainment. WAIT WHAT? There's some random chick with red glasses on there too? Wow, definitely surprising. I thought that I owed you guys new videos and a long post because of my absence. Enjoy the two videos first and then carry on scrolling down for the blog post! I hope you enjoy it my darlings :)
What come's to mind when you think of a beautiful man/woman? Piercing eyes that glisten with the sun shining down upon them, or brains that are full of information and knowledge. Silky long locks or eyebrows that are thick and full of life? Let me tell you what I think is beautiful. You.
"Oh here we go with the cheesiness" some of you may think but to be honest, I AM being honest. What, you think I'm talking nonsense? Please, ya'll should know that I speak my mind and will not hold back.
Let's paint a scene shall we?
A short and petite girl is walking to the shops with her tall friend. They both enter a makeup shop. The short girl comes across a red lipstick that she then tries out. Her tall friend picks out the same lipstick and tries it on too.
Description of the two girls. The first one has her hair tied up in a messy bun, jeans and a t-shirt. Her face is quite round and has a few spots. Her eyes are big and brown and her lips are quite thin. Her eyebrows haven't been touched (she doesn't pluck/wax/tweeze them). The second girl has her hair curled and is wearing a maxi dress clinging on to her figure. Her eye makeup is simple and her eyebrows have been filled in for that 'perfect arch shape'. Her eyes are almond shaped and hazel.
Now, they both leave the makeup store with the same lipstick on and stumble across a male friend of theirs.
Who do you think the male speaks to? Who do you think the male has more interest in? The short and petite girl, or the tall one? I haven't created this scenario to be biased of any tall or short girl, I'm just getting you to think. Now, the male has his own personal opinion of who he thinks is more 'attractive' right? Everyone has their own opinion, we're humans and we all have our own individual mind. But what if the male thinks that one of the two girls is ugly. Ergh, there it is. That awful word. UGLY.
Definition of the word ugly: "unpleasant or repulsive, especially in appearance". I mean, seriously? Now think as yourself for a second, do you think that male has the right to think that one of the two girls are ugly? I mean, it is HIS opinion right? Each person is entitled to their own opinion. But what if he said it to one of the two girls. What if he meant it and was his intention to be cruel. Is that wrong? Of course it is.
Let's elaborate. We live in a society where the celebrity actresses and magazine models are the ROLE-models. Airbrushed and edited to the max. Pssht, and we thought Instagram was deception. In this society, being slim, having flawless skin and long silky hair are more or less the keys of being 'beautiful' for a woman. Magazines and so forth displays this standard in which females have to reach. Females want to be and feel beautiful and comfortable within their own skin. Everyone does, including males obviously. In a males perspective, is having a 'ripped' body the key of being beautiful? Or is being fit and healthy better? How can you feel beautiful with all those steroids inside of you (aimed towards those that do steroids). I'm baffled. When I scroll down my Instagram/Facebook newsfeed, I see women who think that taking their clothes off and showing more skin will make them confident. Hey, if you are comfortable with your own skin, that's fine, but why lower yourself to 'that' standard where random males talk to you like a piece of meat. Self respect has more worth than having 100 Instagram likes.
"The beauty of a Woman is not in a facial mole, but true beauty in a Woman is reflected in her soul. It is the caring that she lovingly gives, the passion that she knows.”
Why has it come to the fact that not that many people care about inner beauty. Lots of people can call you beautiful because of your appearance but being beautiful comes from within. I'm running out of time but let me just wrap this up.
You have your own opinions, everyone is entitled to it, but think before you comment on someone's appearance and judge them straight away. What's the point. What satisfaction will you gain. Become a better person and strive to treat people with the respect they deserve.
And that's a wrap! Thank you so much for your time! Keep those queries coming at me on my e-mail! Good luck to you all. God bless! xx
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For now...SALUTATIONS X
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