How are you? You good? How's life? Was your day good too? Family okay? Friends nice? Make yourself a cuppa (English term for cup of tea) and enjoy this post because today ladies and gents, is story time!
Today for me personally, was a day where I somehow reflected upon various things. Sixth Form (College), friends, family and me. Where the heck was I going in life? I thought about this blog, my grades, school and 100+ more typical things that a teenager over thinks about. Lovely isn't it?
Whilst I was over thinking (as per usual) about all the possible downfalls I could face in life in general, I thought about how badly I was trying to impress everybody. Why do I do that? I'll tell you why, people. People are so mean, especially the ones closest to you... friends.
I mean, we all have that brainiac friend that just intimidates the life out of you when you complain about how badly your maths lesson went or something (hint hint to anyone that goes to my school). I mean, honestly come on! They're standing there all smart and stuff when you complain about how you don't get an equation or something and they ask you the killer question: "do you want help"? DUDE. NO.
Some of you are probably thinking how on earth is that intimidating... well you're probably that 'brainiac' i'm talking about right now! When this certain brainiac asks you if you want their help, you just want to hide. Seriously. I don't know why but for me, I get embarrassed if they ever want me to ask them for help. It's frustrating and inside I feel like they're laughing at me. It's not paranoia, it's just embarrassment. Sometimes you just don't know whether that brainiac genuinely wants to help you or not.
Don't get me started on that certain 'pretty' friend. Oh LORD! We all have that 'pretty' friend who has to take everything you want away from you. EVERYTHING. You find a certain someone attractive, NOPE THEY ADD THEM ON FACEBOOK. You want to enter a school club, NOPE THEY GOTTA COME WITH YOU. You want the last cupcake in the school canteen, NOPE THAT'S THEIRS TOO. I mean seriously? Just stop it. You know who you are ¬_¬
And now we finally arrive to that plain ass 'conceited' friend. This so called companion is as vain as a peacock. They cannot stop talking about themselves. When will they learn to shut their mouth? C'mon, we all know about those annoying stories where "some guy was staring at them for so long they just had to leave the room" or how "some woman kept giving them dirty looks because she was jealous of their appearance". Listen, if you are one of those vain friends, just stop it. You sound ridiculous. If I could tell you the amount of times where I've heard from my 'conceited' friend that a man was staring, proposing, winking or touching them, I would be typing all day to be honest. Once is enough for me thanks. OH MY GOSH, don't even get me started on the amount of times they put someone down for their looks and how that person doesn't 'look right'. That is a pet peeve of mine.
There is a massive difference between confidence and being vain. Remember, you cannot be humble and conceited.
I'm not stereotyping ladies and gents, it's the plain truth. We all have that type of 'friend'. They change, their egos enlarge and us loyal friends have to deal with it. It's okay not to be okay. I have to remind myself of this too.
And that wraps up my second blog post!
WOOOOOO (does 3 star jumps, goes out of breath and takes a seat on a revolving chair)
I hope that you could relate to this in some sort of way.. actually no. I would rather you have a nice life filled with amazing friends :) Smile and be happy. That's a reminder to myself aswell. I promise I'll try if you do ;)
For now...
SALUTATIONS x
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